funkyfresh Posted August 8, 2017 Share Posted August 8, 2017 Met a girl at a party a few days ago. We work for the same business, but I rarely see her (different positions, very rarely would I run into her). We talked a lot at the party, and exchanged numbers. Long story short, we've been texting nonstop for the past 3 days. Literally hundreds of texts of us joking around and whatnot. We're both single and we both know it. So today I mentioned we should go for a drink, and I asked her when she would have time to be available. She tells me she'll have to get back to me. Okay, cool. Then she tells me "well, my friend isn't responding, and i had plans with him, I guess we can get a drink tonight?". I've already made plans, and our texting now has....pretty much stopped. I felt a tiny bit like I was her...fallback guy? Her plan B? so I've lost a little interest. Am I being crazy? Am I right to assume I'm just a backup, or am I just being friendzoned? We're both in our early 30's, if that helps. Thanks for any input everyone. Link to comment
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