Wolverineluke Posted August 7, 2017 Share Posted August 7, 2017 My best friend since I was 5 moved to Kentucky for Dental School. He has been dating his girlfriend for around 6 years now. Him and I went to the same college, roomed together the entire time, always played sports together, and he helped me through many life events. Recently I noticed I haven't heard from him as much, and when we would talk, it would be very brief. I went on a road trip and planned on staying a night with him and his girlfriend (they had ok'd it previously) at their place and to catch up. About a week before I left, he texted me saying he wasn't going to have time to visit or have me stay the night. I told him my friend (who was coming along for the trip) and I would explore the city during the daytime and let them study and then just come back for the night. He ended the convo with 'it's not going to work out for us'. I haven't seen them in almost a year, and it's very unlike him to bail last minute like that. Since then, I have seen that they have done a lot of traveling, hanging out with other couples/friends, etc. I am confused as what to do. I texted him a couple weeks ago asking if he and I were good, and he never even responded.... What do I do? Is this just a case of growing apart? Should I confront him? He's like a brother to me, I wouldn't want to lose him from my life. But at the same time, it's irritating to even think about... Link to comment
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