Texted Ex Girlfriend

[DoubleT]

My exgirlfriend and i just came out of a 2.5 year relationship end of last March. We kept contact afterwards, but things didn't end well. She got into a new relatuonship end of May. I went no contact for about a month and a half. However I ran into her in an event 2 days ago, where we talked for 2-3 mins and I gave her a friendly hug and told her was good to see her. Later that night she fell on her knees, and got stictched up. I texted her yesterday, asking if her knee is feeling better; however she still did not respond. I am kind of confused on why she didn't. any thoughts? I am moving on and everything, but just wanted to keep things on good terms and act mature about it

[MissCanuck]

She didn't respond because she has a new boyfriend and doesn't want to give you false hope.

[Elavohra]

Why do you even want to keep things on good terms? This act of maturity is actually making us (people) look dumb. Once an ex is always an ex. And from my experience exes can't be friends.

Don't contact her, there is no need to keep things on good terms. You better focus on yourself, only and only yourself.

[Hollyj]

Why do you even want to keep things on good terms? This act of maturity is actually making us (people) look dumb. Once an ex is always an ex. And from my experience exes can't be friends.

Don't contact her, there is no need to keep things on good terms. You better focus on yourself, only and only yourself.

 

I think that exes can be friends, as long as they no longer have feelings, and the relationship ended respectfully.

[Rust]

There is occasions where you can be friends but in the long term it doesn't work as a true balanced friendship as one will always have invested more into the relationship.

I believe that she's not responding because she's done and she's moved on.

[Elavohra]

I think that exes can be friends, as long as they no longer have feelings, and the relationship ended respectfully.

 

I don't know, maybe you're right. But I don't see any hopes in my case. This is why I always say, there is no need to keep up any hopes just try to move on.

[Elavohra]

There is occasions where you can be friends but in the long term it doesn't work as a true balanced friendship as one will always have invested more into the relationship.

I believe that she's not responding because she's done and she's moved on.

Yeah! I agree with you. My relationship ended because I was giving him more attention and unknowingly was sucking his personal space. I know I made mistakes and I tried hard to reconcile, but he was adamant enough to not to change his mind and give me a second chance. And he wanted me to stop talking to him forever. Sigh! Hurtful, painful it was but still, I suppose in the long run this will help me out significantly.

[romanivor]

Don't question why she didn't respond back because you will drive yourself crazy searching for an answer when it could be completely something else or that answer will make you want to ask more questions... At the end of the day, it doesn't matter if she responds or not. She is an ex and she should stay that way, just remember, ya'll aren't together anymore for a reason.

 

Keep moving forward and onwards without talking to her, you will be fine. Time heals everything when they are out of sight and out of mind.