Atuneasea Posted August 6, 2017 Share Posted August 6, 2017 It's 3am... I have a date tomorrow evening with at the home of a guy I have 0 interest/attraction to. I don't know what I was thinking to have done this. I guess I was desperate and thought feelings would grow. Now I'm realizing there's nothing there. I had one date this guy, decided I was not interested but just sort of stopped responding Last week I was feeling sort of lonely, so I texted him out of the blue. I started flirting with him saying I'm feeling like exploring Sexually with Him and be my FwB and asked him if I can come over then backed out and said how about next week. I've sent him a couple sexy pics(not nudes but lingerie) He said sure, he can make me my favorite food. We planned sunday(tomorrow)He has been texting me all week and also asked if I wanna see a movie with him really early in the day. I've been distant with my texts and have evaded his question about if the movie time is good, but time is running out. He said he's getting his brother who lives with him to leave the house to give us some privacy. Hs worked longer 2 previous nights to get Saturday off early to go grocery shopping for our meal. He's been up preparing the meal. He said he's so excited about tomorrow. He keep texting. He also said he has purchased a surprise for me. I said nothing, did not stop him I dont know what to do now... I feel trapped, like I have to go and I made it sound like I was up for sex maybe I was hypothetically but not for real and definitely not now. I have decided no more trying to force attraction even if I'm desperate. I've learned from this , do I have to pay the price and go tomorrow? And should I tell him when I get there let's just be friend? He might try to kiss me, god that will be awful. I am also considering just ghosting that will be the least awkward way for me because it's sweeping it under the rug and I don't have to deal with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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