Robinsonhtid14 Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 I think my wife is sexting on WhatsApp with my best friend. Last week my best friend said he was talking to my wife on WhatsApp and flirted a bit for a joke. Next few nights my wife is always on her phone typing and smiling. She isn't normally like this. When she went up upstairs to get ready for a shower for a few days it took her 10mins to go back down to the shower I went up there and she was on her phone.. She said my best friend had messaged her. Later on I checked her phone and all her msgs from my best friend were wiped.. Checked next day some msgs there, nothing crazy, day after that checked again, all cleared again... For context I work nights while she is home Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolfshook Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 Wow,some nice friends you have there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kbbcoop77 Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 Lol my wife played that game..iPhone welded to her hand..flirting with our daughters boyfriends dad..she dumped me and lives with him now. Not judging just telling you what happened to me, we were together 24 years. So that ball sounds like it's in motion. Hard to change her thinking when she's getting her "emotional fix" elsewhere Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 Something is up for her to be deleting messages. You've also just learned your best friend is not the great guy you probably thought he was. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SherrySher Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 With friends like that who needs enemies? It sounds like your wife is up to no good and I would confront her about it. She has no reason to be texting with your "friend" at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doc Blaze Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 Last week my best friend said he was talking to my wife on WhatsApp and flirted a bit for a joke. why are they even messaging each other ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricorn3 Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 Last week my best friend said he was talking to my wife on WhatsApp and flirted a bit for a joke. Did you ask your "friend" WHY he is flirting with your wife? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j.man Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 Do you two have kids? I can understand some hesitance in that case, but if it's just you and her, dump both her and your friend. No confronting necessary. You know what's going on and that's frankly all that matters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lester Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 So-called friend says he's flirting with your wife. What was your response to that? Did you talk to your wife about it? How do you know they're sexting? [sextiing: The sending of sexually explicit digital images, videos, text messages, or emails, usually by cell phone. Dictionary.com] When and why did she start using a covert app? Didn't her phone come with a message app? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatwasThen Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 There seems to be a lot of jumping to conclusions here. Instead of doing that, why not sneak your way to the truth? Why don't you talk to your wife and ask her about the wiped messages and why she is glued to her phone lately. Ask her outright what her and friend have been up to and why she's even messaging him. See what she has to say. Then go to your friend and tell him your wife told you everything and would he like to explain his behavior. See if he's dumb enough to confess what's really going on or if he denies any funny business and confirms your wife's denials (if any). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j.man Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 There seems to be a lot of jumping to conclusions here. Instead of doing that, why not sneak your way to the truth? Why don't you talk to your wife and ask her about the wiped messages and why she is glued to her phone lately. Ask her outright what her and friend have been up to and why she's even messaging him. See what she has to say. Then go to your friend and tell him your wife told you everything and would he like to explain his behavior. See if he's dumb enough to confess what's really going on or if he denies any funny business and confirms your wife's denials (if any).Fortunately, TWT is one of those posters who, when I see she simply disagrees with my opinion, makes me right away second-guess my input. Turns I'd accidentally read it as "My wife has been sexting my friends" as a matter of fact rather than the actual "I think she has been" the OP wrote. I'd assumed he'd previously read some real sexts. I'll then have to agree that it's hasty to just drop the marriage and friend. Also curious as to what constitutes "flirting" for the OP. It's a pretty gray concept in these parts. Whether is was particularly explicit or more-or-less friendly banter would determine whether I'd agree with the other half of confronting him and her or if I'd advise simply deciding to trust her and let it go. OP, why are you going through her correspondences anyway? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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