susy Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 I have been dating this guy for about 10 weeks. We have been on a date about once a week. It’s been about 50/50 we ask each other out. We have been on double dates with my sister and best friend. Both have told me we look very happy together. Dates have gone very well. We hug and hold hands in public and have had sex too. Only thing is he is not good at expressing his feelings, doesn’t talk much about himself. He does text me on a daily basis and usually texts me first. I really like him, love his qualities and feel ready to move on to the next step, becoming exclusive. However, he has not expressed the same. About a week ago I asked how he thought things were going and he said “I’ve been having a good time and everything is going fine”. I asked if he just looking for fun or something serious and he said serious. I continued by asking if I should continue to invest my feelings and he said yes. A few days later I asked if he dates anyone else and his response was “just you at the moment”, I then asked if he planned to and he said “lol no” and did not ask me the same. I do not want to continue to invest my feelings if he does not feel the same. What should I do at this point? Ask to be exclusive? Thank you in advance for the feedback, it is appreciated. Link to comment
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