what000111 Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 I've had a love relationship for 20yrs on and off with the love of my life... We have gone back and forth for years... we were in separate relationships and some how found each other again. I was in the military 12yrs ago and left for Iraq. While I was serving she re-found me through social media and we reignighted our relationship but I moved to NC when I returned from Iraq. She came and met me when I came home and came to NC with me and spent weeks with me. I tried to convince her to move here with me but she eventually declined after weeks of thinking about it. I found a new girlfriend and had her for 2 1/2 years and then we broke up and my long love found out about it and immediately made contact. we rekindled our relationship once more and again i tried to convince her to move down and again she declined... 2 yrs when by and we were talking everyday and she came down in April and we had an amazing time, then she came back down in May and we had an even more amazing time. she started talking about moving down and making plans. She returned home and we continued to facetime everyday and i was happy. I sent her flowers and a note roughly a week after she went home and she said she didn't know which one she loved more, the flowers or the note... 2 weeks later i noticed a guy liking all of her facebook posts and I asked her about him and she said she may potentially be going into a relationship with him and that was back in June. every 3 or 4 days she would contact me some way... facetime, a joke through messenger or a text... She just recently facetime me and I realized she was at his house and she is spending nights there. She told me that she was going through tough times and that this guy somehow saved her what ever that meant... I have no ideal how to proceed... Link to comment
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