Sevtapbeauty92 Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 I started a new position about 6 months ago and there is this guy that I used to see from a distance and thought he was attractive but then when I saw him from a closer view, I noticed that he was wearing a wedding ring, so I stopped thinking of him completely; but then he would always keep looking and smiling to me for no reason like if he is always watching me, he would also keep acting funny/cool, gets nervous when I am around, and so I started to like him a little but I don't flirt with him or try to talk to him because I know he is married. A few weeks ago, I was in my lunch break alone and he came and said that we never "officially" met and introduced himself and kept talking to me about my hobbies, etc, and while he was talking to me, he mentioned his kids out of nowhere and i felt like he meant to mention them. I got really nervous when he talked to me, and I usually get nervous when he's around so I think he may know that I kinda like him because of that. When he mentioned his kids, I thought he was trying to tell me that he is not interested, so I didn't try to talk to him again or anything but he continues the staring, etc.. then yesterday, he brought his wife and kids to work and walked so happily with them in front of me. To be honest, I am hurt and I know that I should have never let myself feel attracted to a married man and I did try to resist it but his behaviors made me like him and now I don't know how I can get him off of my mind since I see him everyday. Could you please let me know how I can stop paying attention to him and thinking of him? I have been lonely for so long and I haven't been meeting any guys since I graduated college. Link to comment
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