floridagirl13 Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Long story but bare with me here, earlier this year in college I started talking to this guy. We started off as pretty decent friends and I would just help with schoolwork and whatever. Then I noticed he started getting flirty and he tried to hookup with me. I heard he had a girlfriend so I asked him multiple times and he denied her existence and then brought up his instagram and said "don't you think if I had a girlfriend she would be on my instagram?" and just shrugged. So anyways a few weeks after that we started hooking up and it was casual at first but I had always liked him. We would hang out everyday and get food and go places together and then one weekend we went to Atlanta for a basketball game and I saw that this girlfriend he's been denying is expecting his baby. The next morning I called him out and told him to go be with her and to basically leave me alone and he refused, then a few days later he told me he loved me but he only said it once and never said it again and neither did I. We talked, texted, called each other every day pretty much until I saw something that she had posted of him and she just shared a memory with him so I called him and yelled at him (because we had been fighting because I just didn't believe him) and he said "were not together, wouldn't you want the father of your child back" and then a few weeks later I flipped out saying I was no longer doing this and didn't want to be the side chick and he responded and said "how could you be a side chick if i am single" and all this stuff and then i sent a long text saying i was done and he didn't respond for a few days and blocked me on social media so i blocked his number and assumed it was the end. 2 weeks passed and he unblocks me and messages me, I responded. Now we are talking every day and we call and facetime and he was like "i don't want you to think i'm using you because i'm not, you buy me things sometimes and i like new things (i accused him of using me for money) but that's not the reason I talk to you." but he is expecting a baby with this "ex" girlfriend and she is a little crazy based on her social media, almost dumb, part of me thinks they are not together because she used to post about him all the time on twitter and she hasn't posted anything since April. He is transferring to the same college as her to play lacrosse and I'm assuming to be close to the baby. He told me he still wants to see me at school and that he would drive to come down and he talks to me about this baby situation pretty often which I always thought was a good sign because he's being open and honest to me. I just don't know what to believe because I really can't imagine someone being that ty of a person if what he is saying is all lies. Link to comment
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