Jk1989 Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Hi everyone, hoping I can get some insight.. On July 6th, my ex bf broke up with me due to something he over reacted about, that he did.. and I confront him about it(found out he watches porn). We were together for two months. Immediately after the break up, I made some mistakes and begged, I was pushy, and a super emotional roller coaster. Due to my begging and pleading, it pushed him away more. I very quickly went on no contact to get my sanity back and to start the healing process. A week after the break up, he started up with the bread crumbs. He saw some photos of me and felt the need to text me and compliment me. For the next couple weeks he would reply to public snaps, he did it a couple times. He would text and tell me hope I'm doing well and little things. I was always short, but polite and took a little extra time to respond. It's been about 4 weeks since the break up. And he CRACKED! Last Thursday he texted me out of the blue and said "I feel like nothing to you" and I'm thinking... you broke up with me? I'm trying to pick myself up off the ground where you left me. But from the text we chatted a bit and have been each day since then. I was taking my time responding, he started to crack little by little. He was getting impatient through text, and I will say I enjoyed this a bit. To see a dumper crack. Then two days ago, he comes over really really late.. he wants to talk and he tells me he wants to work on us (I basically sat and just listened to him for a while).For the first time ever he told me he LOVES me and that I am the 2nd girl he's ever told that to. He probably told me like 80 times how much he missed me and all this other stuff. I just hope that everything he told me was genuine. Saying you love someone is a huge deal to me and it scared me. I couldn't say it back. While we weren't talking, it hurt me and turned me off that he would follow/like/comment all these random girls on insyagram. I hated that. It hurt me so much I had to unfollow him. I think because of this it affected how I feel about him. I asked him about this and he told me yes he was trying to get over me and he didn't do anything. I know that he will have to build his trust back with me. Link to comment
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