Had a one night stand and he blocked me

[Mpinga]

Hi all,

 

So a few nights back i had a one night stand with a guy i met online... well its totally unlike me to do such but hey things happen.

 

Anyway we had sex after the date and he even left the condoms by my place saying he will use them next time he comes over.

Well two days after we had sex i texted him and guess what... He blocked me after reading my text.

 

At this moment i am worried about my health because at some point we didnt use a condom, bt he didnt cum inside me but i had an orgasm during that time. I took a morning after pill but still nervous about other deseases.

 

What makes me nervous is that when we started kissing i asked him if he got condoms on him he said no, so i told him i have to be protected and he actually left and went ti buy condoms and came back.

 

The sex was bad honestly because his penis kept on going back to normal(meaning his eraction ddnt last for long) most of the time.

 

And he kept on saying i must jus wait a lilttle bit for it to get hard. Sorry i know TMI

 

But now m stuck. 1. I got blocked. 2. Im scared that i might have caught some sexually transmitted infection includng HIV from him. I want to test ASAP bt i see most posts say u can detect an infection abt 2weeks after intercause.

 

Any advise?

[Honeycomb8]

Why would u have unprotected sex with some random?

Next time think before you act.

[SherrySher]

Don't let men use you like this. And he did use you. Get yourself to a doctor and get tested ASAP. and please, next time you ever have sex again, use a condom. It could save your life and you need to protect yourself!!!!

[MissCanuck]

This guy definitely used you for sex. Perhaps he's not even single.

 

Phone your doctor or nearest sexual health clinic. Speak to someone there who can arrange for the appropriate tests.

[Mpinga]

Thanks for judgement 😊

[nutbrownhare]

Yep, forget this guy. Get yourself tested, for your own reassurance, and don't think about contacting him again.

[j.man]

You had a one night stand. The sex, by your admission, sucked. It's not like you two had a rich history to fall back on, so yeah. It is what it is. Not sure about all the talk of you being used, particularly when you were asking him to buy condoms, but it's best to not give him any further thought and to look to your sexual health. Your doctor will give you a time frame on when to come in to test for what.

 

Nothing wrong with having a ONS (unless of course it's wrong for you), but do try to be safer about it. If a guy you just met is willing to have unprotected sex with you, you can only imagine who else he's done the same with after just meeting. It's risky. Best of luck with everything.

[SherrySher]

If that comment was meant to me, I am not judging you. I am stating why he blocked you and hoping you don't let people treat you that way.

That's a fair comment.

[Mpinga]

Hi sherry, not at all.

It was meant for honeycombo8

[DancingFool]

Hi sherry, not at all.

It was meant for honeycombo8

 

It may seem like a harsh comment, but unfortunately it's right on point. When you decide to have sex with a complete stranger, you are truly putting your life and well being at risk. After spending a few hours with a guy you met online, you really have no idea what kind of a person you are dealing with and what he might actually do to you and once done you can't undo it. You may think well I'm totally up for sex and it's all good, but you don't know what diseases he might have or what kind of a pervert he might be. What might start out as I want to sleep with him can quickly end in rape because you might not be up for what he does to you. So please do think carefully in the future if it's a risk worth taking.

 

Above aside, great that you took the morning after pill. Other than that, all you can do is talk to your gyno about testing and you might need several tests as it takes time for some diseases to appear. Hopefully nothing such happened and you are fine. As for contacting him, I mean it won't do you any good either way and he is clearly not interested in talking to you again. Chalk this up to life lesson learned and hopefully no real damage done.

[Mpinga]

Thank you for the advise😊.

 

I think you guys have missed that i know where this guy lives and works. But not that its important because i am done with him!!!!

 

I think i have learned my lesson hey! There is nothing more stressful in my life than this, that time i am going on holiday tomorrow, i am suppose to be excited but im not because of this stress.

 

Thanks again for the advise!

[nutbrownhare]

I think you guys have missed that i know where this guy lives and works. But not that its important because i am done with him!!!!

 

I think you're right, largely because you hadn't mentioned it! I hope you don't bump into him, and if you do - pretend nothing's happened.

 

But it would be a real shame if you don't enjoy your holiday because of this, so try and concentrate on having a good time and let him float away with all the other dross of life.

[j.man]

I think you're right, largely because you hadn't mentioned it!

Swisshhhhhh

[JaggerJim]

Thank you for the advise😊.

 

I think you guys have missed that i know where this guy lives and works. But not that its important because i am done with him!!!!

 

I think i have learned my lesson hey! There is nothing more stressful in my life than this, that time i am going on holiday tomorrow, i am suppose to be excited but im not because of this stress.

 

Thanks again for the advise!

 

You should go over and ask him why he blocked you, and if he had any std's that you should be aware of. That's just plain rude to block someone.

[j.man]

You should go over and ask him why he blocked you, and if he had any std's that you should be aware of. That's just plain rude to block someone.

C'mon, man. You know better.

 

Don't just show up at the dude's house or work. There's no point to it other than if you just wanna be creepy. Get independently tested for STDs. His answer to whether he has one or not wouldn't and shouldn't matter. If he's irresponsible enough to go in bareback with women who haven't been tested, I highly doubt he's responsible enough to have been tested himself to give you accurate information even if he wanted to be.