Jeans Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 I decided to start dating again and I thought I would try bumble. I had 2 previous bad experiences with bumble and ended up deleting the app but got back on a couple months later. Insert cute and funny bumble guy I match with almost instantly. We talked for about a month and decided to meet up. I had been traveling a lot this summer so I didn't have many opportunities to meet up. We went on 2 dates before I was leaving for ten days. He talked to me everyday and I was beginning to really like him. So I get back from my trip and we go on our third date. He's different. He makes jokes about seeing other girls but I honestly don't know if he's joking. He said he was doing it to see my reaction and it was working. He kept going back and forth between talking about me in his future to not wanting a relationship. I was so confused the whole date. We went out for lunch and a movie and went back to his place. I should have just left. We had already been together for 6 hrs and I'd over stayed my welcome. I stayed and we hooked up. Something I told myself I wouldn't do. Then come 9pm after the deed was done. He kicks me out. I've never been asked to leave after having sex so my emotions were all over the place. He texted me to make sure I got home and texted me the following morning. I couldn't play it cool because I was upset. I told him I wasn't into casual sex and wanted to still see him but not if that's what it was all about. I feel like I might have slightly overreacted. And I don't know how to salvage this if it's even possible. I really like the guy and need some advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ardie Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Let him go. so, you talk, you had sex, you like him... he is humiliating you - why - because he can. You let him do that. He is no material for anything in your life, I'm sure you will agree, once you gain your stability again. -Why bumble, when there are so many other choices? You said you had bad experiences, so why? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
figureitout23 Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 I could be wrong but it sounds like you slept with him because he was acting weird and pulling away and you thought sex would 'keep him' Please let this be a lesson. The guy sounds like a disrespectful and I'm sure you can do better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostandhurt Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 You set your boundaries and if he wants the same thing he will contact you. If he just wants to hook up then he won't. There are other guys out there for you. Next time don't have sex so soon and see how it plays out. Lost Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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