ahd15 Posted July 31, 2017 Share Posted July 31, 2017 It's my exs birthday. She broke up with me and is now dating another guy. I still have her things at my place and her dog is there too. A few days back I told her I loved her and to reach out to me if something changes but I dont really want friendship or small talk. She got mad at me a week ago because she sent me a message telling me she'll pay for the dogs food which never even crossed my mind and I told her to stop reaching out to me about stuff like that as I've told her once before I don't want to chat unless she wants to hang out. As a matter of fact I'd love to keep the dog since my dog and hers became good friends. Here's what I said: Babe I'm ok that you left. It had to happen. I don't resent you for it. I won't put up with you acting like I'm a selfish a hole though. I care about you and always will so when you tell me you'll pay me for my help it's it's like everything I've been telling you our whole relationship about what you meant to me went in one ear and out the other. I never lied to you. Keep your stuff here take it when you're ready. Let me know and I won't be here. I always wanted to help you and be your rock but i approached it the wrong way. Lesson learned. You're beautiful smart sexy and unforgettable but I'm not gonna keep you in my life if you don't want to be in it and I don't want to be in yours while you're with someone or don't want me. I don't chase. Never have. I know you've had bad experiences but that's not my style. If I showed weakness it was because I never had anyone distrust me they way you did and I realize its not your fault. I didn't know how to deal with and you were important to me. Now I know I can't push sht like that it's gotta happen on its own. If anything changes and you want to hang out reach out and if I'm available I'd love to hear from you but small talk and friend zone is not where I want to be with you. I loved every second we spent together even the rough ones. Ill send you a picture of Timber every few days so you know he's ok. I love you and I wish you the best. should I reach out or wait for another day? I don't want her to think I forgot but on the other hand I meant what I said. Link to comment
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