BOo533842 Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 Hi All, I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 7 months now. On the whole I think things are going reasonably well. I just have a few issues in my head that are really getting to me. In the past she admitted to keeping in touch with some ex boyfriends but it is nothing more than friendship, which I totally believe but can't shake the insecure feeling that she is keeping her options open. I also notice that when I send her a text in the morning around 10am she was active on FB messenger 5 hours ago. Admittedly she is a poor sleeper and always has been. She can also be very cold but has a lot going on due to her caring role for her alcoholic sister. So she can be in a mood when we meet up but I don't take this personally. I just feel that she could pull the plug on the relationship at any time and it is very hard to shake the feeling. Yes she does call, text etc but I still cannot shake the insecure and paranoid feeling. I have tried raising it with her and I think she is gaining insight into my insecurity. I just hope I can resolve this before my fears come true. Link to comment
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