jayce1011 Posted July 29, 2017 Share Posted July 29, 2017 Ok, this is my issue, I think im way too obsessed and jealous with my girlfriend. im so in love with her and she is too crazy in love with me, we both write love letters to each other and spend all our time together. We're perfect for eachother, and we both see a future with each other. We're very similar to each other, but the biggest and only difference is our lifestyle. She goes out a lot and loves to go to parties with friends and im always indoors, generally just watch series, gym (i go to the gym every day, 2 hours a day) game (we're both gamers), im not some fat lazy guy or anything, im just not social. She has a lot of male friends (friends that are also into her) and gets A LOT of attension, not because she's ty or anything, shes really beautiful (like model beautiful). So a lot of guys try to flirt with her when she goes out or anything. i would go with her but we're in a long distance relationship so its difficult for us to see eachother. we've been together for half a year and we're CRAZY in love with eachother and im gonna go see her soon. So this is where the obsessiveness comes. every time she goes out with friends (party or just going to the cinema) i can't sleep or eat, I get really really sick when she does (i start to vomit sometimes and the reason for not eatting, im not even hungry and i just cant eat, this has reulted in rapid weight loss, and to top onto that im not going to the gym becuase i cant focus, i just think about her all day when she dose go out), and i dont want to be that boyfriend that says "no you cant go". i dont know what to do?????? i love her so much, but i dont want to feel this way everytime she goes out, i want to love her and i do, just not to the extent where i get sick and cant do nothing. i really do need help anything would help and please be contrustive. if you need more info just ask. And thank you for reading. Link to comment
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