molomajola Posted July 29, 2017 Share Posted July 29, 2017 Today my Man admitted that I'm a drag. He said everytime he wants to step out I ask him where he going or with who. I ask him questions that make him regret even saying he's going out. However, when I step out he asks me who I'm going with and what I'm going to be doing. Problem is everytime I open my mouth to express how I feel he sees it as me complaining he sees me as a negative voice in his life. Imagine how much i hurt hearing him say this i feel like my soul cracked. Like this Man does not see me, he sees a dictator/a middle aged housewife that's obsessive. The problem is me basically, whenever he wants to step out. However I have never verbally stopped him from doing so..... yet he automatically rejects invites from his friends with the mind that I will automatically become defensive or give a 'negative' answer. When I step out he seems to have no problem. But tonight was the breaking point. Tonight he made it clear that I was his problem. Like I am the reason he can't see his friends (although I always ask him when I want to see mine). Tonight was the first time he made me feel like this relationship was a prison not a Love nest. Tonight was the confirmation that he sees me as a 'moaning '. I never argue with him I never raise my voice but I cry, I cry and he sees it, but now it's got to a point where he thinks my tears are just for show. I'm not a vocal or loud person. I expressed to him that when I express how I feel I'm not complaining however he just took it the opposite way. I'm at a point where I feel like even if I tell my Partner how I feel. It makes no difference, because he thinks I'm just nagging/controlling/cry baby. I'm basically facing a dead end. Link to comment
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