robin13 Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 I'm lying in bed right now, in floods of tears. I need to forget about this girl. I want her out of my mind. She doesn't even speak to me anymore. I need advise on how to get her out of my mind. How do you stop thinking about someone. How do you move on when you feel like you have lost the love of your life? I need to so badly. Any tips on how any of you guys managed it? How do you stop caring about someone? How do you stop caring about them and other people in their love life? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Di_ya2009 Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Keep yourself occupied! watch a movie, go exercise, hang out with friends. Keeping yourself occupied is the best thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vesper Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Start reading books, working out, spending time with family and friends, work on your career, work on your body, work on bettering your soul. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rust Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 1) go back to.old hobbies you done before her or find a new hobbies. 2) after a while that love turns to hate then indifference and it doesn't matter any more. 3) I exercised every time I felt sad or I was angry at the world. I also started studying, hit up concerts, built up my friend ships. Pretty much anything to keep occupied. 4) this may sound cold but you will just eventually just stop caring about her. Hope this helps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hollyj Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Get out of bed. Then, keep yourself super busy. Look into new activities to keep your mind occupied. Time is a healer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lightjocj Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 Get out of bed. Then, keep yourself super busy. Look into new activities to keep your mind occupied. Time is a healer. It's not going to be easy..but what everybody has been telling you in this forum is true..yes you can grieve , yes you can cry, that's all ok. Just don't sit and dwell on it..try to keep moving. Don't worry about tomorrow , or tonight , just take it 1 min at a time..it's ok to process your feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Knight2001 Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 think about her bad points - she must have had some. and say to yourself "im well rid of her because....." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jvi Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 A lot of people here gave you the advice you were after, but the fact's remain, you might always care about this girl. If you think it has become an obsession you should seek out some professional help though. As time passes you guys will slowly drift further away. Sometimes it can take a lot of time for your brain to reach equilibrium. In the meantime don't check up on her in any way, including social media and through friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foolishsunsets Posted July 27, 2017 Share Posted July 27, 2017 The best thing you should do is cut off all contact you had with her. You need to keep your distance to pick yourself up again. Stay active, spend lots of time with family and friends, go out. At some point you will hopefully find yourself not even thinking of her anymore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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