DevonUK Posted July 26, 2017 Share Posted July 26, 2017 Hi Just after other people's perspective. I don't want to go into too much detail as it's a hugely long story but recently had to let go of someone who I was in a relationship with for 1 & 1/2 years. It was wonderful. We Weere happy but unfortunately things ended because of timing possibly not being right and people influencing him on his side. Its been 3 months since he sent me a goodbye it's over text. I've spoken to him once face to face only a few days after and a text or so, then exchanged nice emails as what I guess what a proper goodbye. However I've found it hard to move on, I love him dearly and I tried to contract him about 2 months into breakup. Nothing back. So I took that as an answer. He's over it and doesn't want to or can't, talk. Yes, I say 'can't' as I have it in my head he has no choice and will lose people if he chooses to see me. (He isn't married etc) He once said to me "meeting and talking isn't an option" .....?? Anyway, a month after I last tried to contact him he passed by my work looking for me and smiled when he saw me but shook his head when I waved for him to come over. Again I called him about this being silly, we are adults and surely can speak. No reply. To me, this was the last time I was going to try. 2 weeks after that I saw him again at a football stadium where he works while I was with my child watching a game. I tried to avoid eye contact for as long as possible as I feel the last time he ignored me was enough. However I glanced at him eventually and he was looking at me, he smiled and I smiled back. Then he just kept looking at me and I just looked back, unsure of what to do or how to react. He then waved for me to get my daughter to go down to see him and they stood chatting for about 15 mins. Now don't get me wrong, I'm all for people being pleasant, but i saw this as rubbing my face in it a bit. He feels its necessary to call over my child who is too young to know any different but he cannot respond to me?? If he wants nothing to do with me and cannot be in my life, doesn't want to talk, exchange texts or anything...then why do that?? My friends say he is being ridiculous and definitely playing games but obviously they are a little biased. Sorry about my vague story, I just want someone else's perspective on his behaviour? Link to comment
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