Mcasa1026 Posted July 26, 2017 Share Posted July 26, 2017 Hello all, I have posted here from time to time and each time I seemed to be able to get some rational suggestions so I am hoping to gain some more insights regarding my latest issue: My ex and I broke up over an argument about 1.5 months ago. The breakup occurred during the heat of an argument. Ever since we broke up, we have stopped talking and only exchanged some emails. His tone in the emails all seemed he's in pain and struggling. The first email explained that the breakup was not what he wanted but he had no choice because he was tired of fighting. Second email was to respond to my request of taking care of my possessions left in his apt. He said that he was and will always be there for me with anything, also stated that the time apart was hellish and painful for him. He couldn't sleep, eat, work or focus on anything because he could only think of me. He couldn't even imagine talking to other girls but knew that (breakup) was what I ultimately wanted. I had always tried to win him back so I emailed him that I didn't want to break up and hoped we would have another chance. He didn't respond to me. Two weeks later, when I was just about to give up, he sent me another email telling me he missed me very much. I replied by asking him how he was doing. Then again, he went unanswered. Actually I have tried to reach out to him many times asking him for closure, asking him to tell me that we are over so I can move on without looking back. It's been really frustrating as he kinda gave me the hope that we would eventually reconcile but in the meantime, I get hurt even more every time he ignores me. I have no idea where we stand and what he wants. Any feedback will be very much appreciated. Link to comment
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