Cmartell Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 Last year around this time I went to the races with my boyfriend, our friend, and his girlfriend. My boyfriend and his friend were working on a car and me and the girlfriend were chatting on the trailer. I have never really liked this girl but decided to give her a chance. In the midst of our conversation she decided to tell me that her my MY boyfriend had slept together before. Now rewind to the beginning of me and my boyfriends relationship, I asked him to be honest about who he has been with in the past and he confessed to a girl he had a one night stand with when he was 14. I was okay with that because I wanted an honest and open relationship. I had nothing to tell because I was a virgin when we got together. The problem is, he never told me about this other girl. After me and her were done talking, I very calmly asked him if it was true. He kept saying it wasn't true over and over. Then he pulled her aside to talk. After that, I kept begging him to tell me the truth and he eventually came out and said "Fine, we had sex. Are you happy now?" I then found out that when he pulled her aside he told her to tell me that it wasn't true. The only excuse he gave me for lying was that it was closer to when we met/ started dating. Like 3 or 4 months I think. And on top of all of that, before this had happened there was a rumour that he was cheating on me with this same girl. I know that he didn't cheat but it really bothers me that he lied to me. Am I being ridiculous for still letting it bother me? This isn't the first time he has lied, I want to trust him again but I'm afraid of getting hurt... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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