cococly Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 My exgf of 3.5 yr left me for another guy. I used to plan to move to a new country with my now exgf. She knew it, we had a detailed plan about it before we split. we planned to leave our home country in mid-2018, after we have saved enough money for a new life else where. Now that I am no longer needed to stick with that plan, I am planning to leave in Mid-2017, most likely for good. I have also found a new direction in life, which is to prepare for a brand new career for myself. It's a kind of profession that should catch her attention. I know it might feel like I am bragging about my new life direction, if I initiate contact with her and tell her that. We are on very very minimal contact over the past 2 weeks. If I still want to leave the door open for reconciliation ( Yes I know how bad she treated me), should I tell her what is going to happen to me? If I settle else where, there really would be zero chance that we would ever see each other again. I have an URGE to tell her that I have found a new direction and would be leaving for good, but I am on Minimal contact with her now, I don't think she would care or be jealous of? Yes, I know my future has nothing to do with hers, and vice versa, but I thought some broken-up couples are still curious of what each others are up to? - I just let off some steam after writing this Link to comment
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