anonymous007 Posted July 23, 2017 Share Posted July 23, 2017 My girlfriend of almost three years and I decided to break up after we had to move apart from each other. I had feelings for her and she felt very strongly that I was the one for her. However, we broke up to allow ourselves the freedom to date around. We kept in regular contact, texting each other almost every day and Skype calling occasionally for months. She would often profess her love and I would encourage her to just meet other people for now cuz we're living so far apart. So we keep talking daily and our feelings didn't fade, but just recently (on my birthday of all days) she confessed that she was seeing another guy but he suddenly disappeared. She was balling over this and I just did my best to console her and hide my shock. She texted me the next day like nothing happened and I responded half-heartedly. The next day, I couldn't hold it in any longer so I told her how I felt. I told her that I didn't know she was so far into the "moving on" process and to be honest, I hadn't even begun. I thought our daily contact was our way of trying to stay close. Then she dropped a huge bomb on me: she slept with the guy too. To be honest, she is single and has every right to be seeing and sleeping with other guys. What bothers me is that she was leading me on the whole time, telling me she loves me and she's not interested in other guys. Now she says the guy was just a fling and it meant nothing. She really just loves me and wants to be with me. I still have strong feelings for her but the thought of her sleeping with another guy just disgusts me... and that she led me on the whole time. What should I do? Link to comment
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