JustMay Posted July 22, 2017 Share Posted July 22, 2017 I had a casual relationship with this guy last year at the end of summer, it's been several months we didn't see each other but we had contact several times since then. We know each other pretty well and there was a lot of complicity and attraction between us. Recently, after having cut contact with me for 2 months because of a huge fight, he recontacted me 3 months ago to tell he missed me and that things were better with me, but we still didn't meet up. Either we argue or he says he's busy. He flirts a lot with me, and I'm now sure of him being still interested by me (we're still very attracted to each other and when we talk it's the same complicity as before). I also understood that he sometimes brags (to impress me?) on purpose. We run into each other last time, after months without seeing us. He seemed embarrassed, while by messages he acts proud. I also noticed he looked back at me several time until I left when he though I didn't see him. He has a push/pull behavior, it's like every time we get closer, he suddenly wants to get some distance with me. While he was planning to see me, right after he said he didn't know if we were going to see each other again one day, because he's very busy this month. With no reason, he get angry and became obnoxious towards me. Weird fact, before getting angry, I told him his best friend was following me on social media (whereas he doesn't know me), I was surprised and wanted to see his reaction. He ignored the question, flirted with me and suddenly get angry, saying I was asking too many questions and being pushy by insisting to meet up. Might be a coincidence, but I suspect him to have talked about me. Why he acts like that, does he not want to see me or he is afraid? What can I do to calm down things, or should I make no contact again? Link to comment
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