crepetown Posted July 22, 2017 Share Posted July 22, 2017 Was with a girl for 1.5 years. Was great at first but during the 2nd half of our relationship it bacame draining for me. It would feel like I wasn't doing enough for herand without getting too specific I think she may either have bpd or npd. I was depressed when we broke up. I dumped her because she just started asking too much of me. We don't talk for 7 months then she breaks no contact and we try to be friends, but during this period I'm struggling with my depression getting psychiatric treatment,messing eith meds so I'm not in a good place mentally for reconciliation. I had to fix my own problems first so I stop seeing her. 9 more months of no contact and I start feeling better.less depression less anxiety more focus. I realize that I was somewhat dysfunctional and I apologized to my ex for my own part in our relationship disintegration in a message. That msg I sent was 2 months ago. No response until almost 3 weeks ago. She says she's depressed, but doesn't go into detail. It seems kinda baiting, like I should respond if I care. But Even though I've been fixing my personal problem, that message doesn't make me think the the things that caused failure on her end of the relationship aren't still a factor. I like spending time with this person, but I don't want to lose myself to them. That's what was beginning to happen last time. I just got a new job so I haven't really had much time to focus on what I'm going to do. I'm not oppose to working on things between us but I'm just not getting indication that shes going to do her part, but its hard to tell with do little info Link to comment
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