Lesliealexzan Posted July 20, 2017 Share Posted July 20, 2017 So I am a 23 year-old female and I think I have a pretty healthy dating life. I enjoy first dates and getting to know new people. However there is this one guy on my Facebook that I just cannot get over. We used to go to college together but I had to leave the school for some personal reasons. I don't know what it is about this guy but I would really like to go out with him. He just graduated from the University a few months ago. He's also very smart, ambitious and funny. He is very social as well. However the only thing is is that he is Syrian, I don't care about race but I feel like he may care? I am not sure if you would be open to getting to know an American Girl let alone an American black girl. I have been told on my life that if a man wants you then he will tell you and that you should never let a man know that you have a crush on him. What should I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melancholy123 Posted July 20, 2017 Share Posted July 20, 2017 How about you just ask him to meet for coffee one day? Casual, nothing specific in mind, just a friendly chat. I disagree you should never let a guy know you have a crush on him. Sometimes guys cant see the forest for the trees and need a little push in the right direction1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyman Posted July 20, 2017 Share Posted July 20, 2017 I have been told on my life that if a man wants you then he will tell you and that you should never let a man know that you have a crush on him. What should I do? So you would just play games and drop hints and hope that he gets the message? Maybe if it was 1960, but after the age of feminism, many guys are backing away from the prior norm of 'only men can chase women'. If you want something you go and get it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doc Blaze Posted July 20, 2017 Share Posted July 20, 2017 So I am a 23 year-old female and I think I have a pretty healthy dating life. I enjoy first dates and getting to know new people. However there is this one guy on my Facebook that I just cannot get over. We used to go to college together but I had to leave the school for some personal reasons. I don't know what it is about this guy but I would really like to go out with him. He just graduated from the University a few months ago. He's also very smart, ambitious and funny. He is very social as well. However the only thing is is that he is Syrian, I don't care about race but I feel like he may care? I am not sure if you would be open to getting to know an American Girl let alone an American black girl. I have been told on my life that if a man wants you then he will tell you and that you should never let a man know that you have a crush on him. What should I do? "You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take." Times have changed, there is nothing wrong with asking someone to go out. Sometimes guys are shy or things have happened. Girls have told me they had crushes on me a few years back and I didn't even know it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
and so it goes Posted July 20, 2017 Share Posted July 20, 2017 Nothing ventured; nothing gained. Don't spend the rest of your life wondered what would have happened if you had done something oh, and welcome to the world of every straight man - we (men) over the past few eons have always had to deal with possible rejection - yikes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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