EnterTheVoid Posted July 20, 2017 Share Posted July 20, 2017 Hi you all, I've shared my story here on enotalone before. Basically i was in a relationship which ended a couple of months back. The reason was that my girlfriend had some motivation problems and was unable to support herself, after being patient for several months i eventually started communicating my frustration to her, they eventually turned into really bad arguments, my girlfriend no longer could not take it and ended the relationship. Both of us had our flaws in this relationship, her situation wasn't the best and i had been a jerk to her a couple of times, i wouldn't deny. I tried my best to stay in NC but i couldn't and broke it a couple of times. One time she and i had a long discussion online and it was almost like we were back together, she promised me that she'd improve her financial situation and once she does she'd contact me again to reconcile. 2 months later she contacts me saying that she has changed her mind, that she doesn't want me or want to be in any relationship. Since her attitude had changed completely from the last time i asked her what was wrong. She seemed very intense towards me like i had done something wrong. She finally texted me saying that she's tired of having to answer my questions as to why she doesn't want to be with me, it's just her decision and for christ's sake (her own words) i should stop and leave her alone. I was completely shocked and had no idea what to do, i was in public and on the verge of tears specially because of the tone of language. I finally said okay and never contacted her again. It's been 2 months now and I'm still scratching my head wondering why this sudden change of attitude happened. I would like to hear your opinions. Thanks. Link to comment
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