Staying the night on a second date

[turnerik]

I'm 24, she's 27. She's recently divorced. We went in one date that was only supposed to last an hour but turned in to 5. I'm usually a nervous wreck and can't talk to her but we just clicked. Now she's coming over tomorrow at around 10pm. We live two hours apart. I want a relationship with her but I also want to bang her brains out. She already asked if she can spend the night. I've never really done a Netflix and chill, so not sure how it all goes. Need some advice on what to do when she gets there. My place is clean and all that stuff so no worries there.

[Capttrae]

Just my experince, if she's coming over that late to stay the night, she's not just coming over to talk

[Doc Blaze]

All depends on what you really want.

 

its pretty obvious what she wants, but does she want more than that? that is the question.

 

if all you want do to is hook it, things are already falling into place, she just has to show up.

[Batya33]

She wants to have sex with you. So some considerations - it can be risky if you want a long term relationship. Assume this is her typical routine so that might increase the risk of STDs since she obviously can't be tested and tested effectively prior to having sex. I would also want to know, if I were you, how she would feel if a pregnancy resulted. I would have more dates in public first - and perhaps a short visit down the road to someone's place but this sounds more like she wants to have sex as a first priority.

[Careerchoice]

Need some advice on what to do when she gets there.

 

Have a condom in your pocket. Get some snacks/drinks in advance. A couple of bottles of wine, one red and one white (don't have to be expensive). Chill the white one. Greet her at the door. Talk to her. Offer her something to drink/eat. Either have TV in living room already on or turn it on. Agree on a movie/show and start watching it. Snuggle up with her. About 10 minutes in start making out with her. Have sex with her in the living room or take her hand and lead her into your bedroom and have sex with her there.

 

This is a lay up, so no stress.

[Sportster2005]

I'm 24, she's 27. She's recently divorced. We went in one date that was only supposed to last an hour but turned in to 5. I'm usually a nervous wreck and can't talk to her but we just clicked. Now she's coming over tomorrow at around 10pm. We live two hours apart. I want a relationship with her but I also want to bang her brains out. She already asked if she can spend the night. I've never really done a Netflix and chill, so not sure how it all goes. Need some advice on what to do when she gets there. My place is clean and all that stuff so no worries there.[/QUO

 

Assume she just wants to spend the night. If she wants more, you'll figure it out.