Thisguy123 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 I'm in a relationship where half has been full on together and the other half long distant. It's been one year long distant and I was in control until she mentioned another guy. I instantly became insecure and needy. I've somehow managed to turn her off. And so I booked a ticket to Canada to see her out of frustration and at first she despised the idea. I managed to pull myself together and told her that I would come over wether she likes it or not. Whether it is to be with her or just have a holiday. She's been excited ever since but I managed to get her to confess that she had seen a guy and had sex with him. In a way I was relieved somehow but hurt. But I also understand that I wasn't giving her what she needed physically and so I handled it like a boss and remained calm as I understand why. She Really wants me to stay with her at her place and planned heaps of dates. I'm so lost but we are in love together except we have been apart for so long. Because I love her I want her back. Sure I can live happy with out her but help me. I was thinking of staying in a backpackers to stay distant and focus on me but she has planned for us to stay together. Help Link to comment
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