Heartbreak

[Heart canmend]

I was in a three year relationship with my ex boyfriend. We had been really good friends since 1999. We found each other via social media in 2011. Started dating. He was on the verge of a break up with his ex girlfriend, and to her I appeared out of nowhere. Fast forward to 2013 I gave him an ultimatum, which was be with me or stay with her! I was tired of the back and forth. In the summer he decided to break it off with her and not renew their lease and we moved together. We were inseparable, he was great with my children, joined church, we traveled, shared many holidays and special moments. Well in 2015 he was arrested for embezzlement. And sent off to federal prison! That situation left me abandoned and devastated. This also left me vulnerable. Low and behold I started dating three months after he left, and the guy happened to be his Ex best friend! When my boyfriend in jail (now ex) found that out that I was dating he quickly rebounded to his ex girlfriend, getting her name on him in jail. I was devastated! Here is the kicker!! Come to find out the best friend I was dating for over 15 months is bisexual!! So I feel victimized!! The ex girlfriend sicked her bisexual best friend on me for personal gain! I really realized where my heart was and still is! Now they are together while he is in prison? Was this all a set up? What's your opinion?

[MissCanuck]

This is all a huge mess.

 

Never have any contact with any of them again. Whether or not this was a set-up, who knows. Does it matter? You should have nothing to do with the three of them anymore.

 

Cut yourself free of this crazy drama and find peace.

[rosephase]

You are all cheaters with no ethical leg to stand on. Leave all this drama and find someone to date who is single and not tied up with these people. You can't fix this mess it's to much cheating betrayal and history.

[Heart canmend]

I'm not the cheater! I feel victimized

[rosephase]

You were dating him knowing that he was cheating on his partner. You are both cheaters. You've been hurt but you haven't been victimized.

[mustlovedogs]

I'm not the cheater! I feel victimized

 

You're not a victim. You choose who you date. Let's recap YOUR choices:

- you dated a cheater for years

- you started dating his best friend (don't play dumb. I know you knew)

 

And then you get upset things didn't work out for you. You made these choices.

[WombatShadow]

Also, you announce that the ex-best friend is bisexual as though it's a federal crime or something, and assume that your ex's ex convinced him to date you for...reasons? So she could get back with her winner of an ex who is in prison for embezzlement?

 

What even.

[Heart canmend]

You not understand I was dating his EX GIRLFRIEND BEST FRIEND! Now merinate

[Heart canmend]

We were together for YEARS!! And yes I feel like a VICTIM thank God I was protecting myself!

[Heart canmend]

Clearly. Someone didn't read!!! It was not his best friend!! It was his ex of three years best friend! No one was in a relationship at the time but us!!! She only wAnted revenge!! Sent a bisexual friend to befriend me....

[Heart canmend]

You're not a victim. You choose who you date. Let's recap YOUR choices:

- you dated a cheater for years

- you started dating his best friend (don't play dumb. I know you knew)

 

And then you get upset things didn't work out for you. You made these choices.

 

You need to reread it!! I was not dating his best friend! I said his EX best friend! Which means his ex girlfriend BEST FRIEND. How could I play dumb by being honest

[Heart canmend]

You are all cheaters with no ethical leg to stand on. Leave all this drama and find someone to date who is single and not tied up with these people. You can't fix this mess it's to much cheating betrayal and history.

 

I agree on history!! But I didn't cheat!

[Heart canmend]

You're not a victim. You choose who you date. Let's recap

 

And then you get upset things didn't work out for you. You made these choices.

 

You didn't understand!!