Jamie242 Posted July 15, 2017 Share Posted July 15, 2017 About 2 months ago my girlfriend of just under 4 years ended it with me out of no where. Her family didn't see it coming, my family didn't see it coming, her friends, my friends, and our mutuall friends didn't see it coming. To quickly sum up why it ended I found out after arguing about why it was ending after 4 years I've come to find out life became to stressful for her to be able to handle being with me (that being said we moved home cause her parents got sick, then I had a medical issue that required me to be off work for the past 4 months. So it was stressful but we were getting through it together as a team). I was planning on purposing to her at Christmas and quite literally had a talk with all my friends a week before the break up about if they felt I was doing the right thing. They all agreed I had my life partner. She was my best friend in the whole world. Since the breakup I've been told to have NC but because we lived together for 2.5 years there's things that still need to be addressed for assets and what not. Nothing to major but stuff still needs to be sorted out. I guess my issue is I'm not over her at all and who would be after nearly 8 weeks? But when people ask me "how are you doing" if makes me really think and I'm not fine, I'm actually losing my mind. And I'm completely shattered. And then I want to message her and express how I'm feeling but can't. And it sucks so bad. When I hear almost any music off my iTunes or iPhone there's a story behind it for us because we love music and all the same types of music. I just wish I never had to feel this way ever again. Link to comment
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