Hash237 Posted July 14, 2017 Share Posted July 14, 2017 Hii!! Iam a 20-year-old boy and i'm deeply in love with a girl . We were opponents on the finals of a competition and that's where I met her . It was love at first sight . Then we started texting and we became close . She treats me as a friend but I want us to be in a relationship . I don't want to get friendzoned . Once when we talked about love , marriage she told she is not interested in those things and she wants to live with her family always . But I dont wanna miss her and I have done nice things to her . But I fear once I propose she would cut me off and misunderstand that all I have done is because I loved her all along and hate me for the rest of her life . What should I do?? Help me!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capttrae Posted July 14, 2017 Share Posted July 14, 2017 She's made her point very clear that she doesn't want a relationship. It really sounds like the love is all one sided. If you tell her you run the risk of loosing a friend. You have to ask yourself is it worth the risk? If it is tell her how you feel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perrin83 Posted July 14, 2017 Share Posted July 14, 2017 Hii!! Iam a 20-year-old boy and i'm deeply in love with a girl . We were opponents on the finals of a competition and that's where I met her . It was love at first sight . Then we started texting and we became close . She treats me as a friend but I want us to be in a relationship . I don't want to get friendzoned . Once when we talked about love , marriage she told she is not interested in those things and she wants to live with her family always . But I dont wanna miss her and I have done nice things to her . But I fear once I propose she would cut me off and misunderstand that all I have done is because I loved her all along and hate me for the rest of her life . What should I do?? Help me!! You should absolutely NOT propose to a friend. Especially not one that you aren't romantically involved with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HannibalCannib Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 This isnt Romeo and Julie more like Romeo and Rosaline. This love is one sided. If you care about having her just around you more than you do dating her or marrying her than I suggest leaving it alone. If you only want her if you can marry her and don't care about the outcomes then do whatever. But all in all I think it might go south for you since you heard her opinion on marriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolfboy702 Posted July 20, 2017 Share Posted July 20, 2017 You're 20, don't get down on one knee for the first girl you fall head over heels for, marriage isn't something you rush into. What these other guys are saying is right, if you can't bear to have her as just a friend maybe try asking her out on a date or something relatively low key and build your way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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