OfMiceAndBunny Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 So in december last year, my long distance relationship lost the 300 miles and he came to live with me. Through that time we've had a few confrontations down to him not being so faithful during periods of his depression due to his lack of job. I let it go at first because i understood how it felt to not feel connected to your own brain and i've done stupid things when i've been depressed. Everything has been fine for a few months but two weeks ago i found explicit messages from him to another girl on his snapchat and he happened to find this girl on a dating website so she was fairly local to us. Bear in mind what he's only been here since december and hasn't had much time to go make a lot of friends. I confronted him about it and he assured me that nothing happened, he tried to make a fool out of me by lying to my face. i let it go when he promised that nothing like this would come up again. fast forward a few weeks and here i am in his hometown of leicester, supposed to be on holiday and relaxing but instead i'm curled up in a corner of his bedroom feeling depressed and worth nothing... He wants to meet up with a woman who was a regular customer when he worked in leicester, she's 32-33, 13-14 years older than him. i met her the last time i was down here with him and it was clear that she has a thing for him and when i later went through their messages i found out that he constantly flirts with her and its really bugging me and it hurts. i don't want to see her again but i just know that he'd abandon me with his family that i barely know yet to go and go out for an afternoon with her and do god knows what. What do i do? i don't want to lose him because he is my world and has changed my life in more good ways than what he's done bad. But i can't help but feel that this woman is going to get in between us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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