Akfranklin2014 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 I've been married now for almost a year. Before we got married we had some issues with my husband talking to other girls. I found messages of him talking to other girls, calling them baby, etc. I found messages between him and his daughter's mother saying he still loved her and was going to leave me "in time." I found no evidence of a physical affair between them and put an end to the talking like they were. We even went to counseling and I believed the problem was gone. I was apparently wrong. I recently found messages between him and other girls. In one situation they have been friends for many years and they both claim they've always talked called each other baby and said I love you in a friendly manner. In others I've found him calling girls baby, babe, boo, etc. The conversations have almost a role playing feel about them and he says that one of them was role playing. However he asked her "what would you do if I asked you to be my real life gf." That didn't sit well with me. At this point I'm pretty much done. I don't really know what to do. He says he's sorry and wants to fix it, but I feel like he's just going to keep doing it. I presently can't really go anywhere as we're sharing a car and neither of us would financially be able to survive, especially living in the area we do. If I do decide to work on it, I've thought about setting a deadline. Without one I feel like the relationship could continue on for years and the real issues not be fixed. I'm just thrown because I wasn't expecting to be dealing with this less than a year into our marriage. Anything anyone can suggest? Link to comment
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