How do you get over someone you once loved ?

[coolgirl]

The title say's it all how do you get over someone you once loved ? I'm not going into details. I did not love him romantically but s part me will always love him. He was the one that decided to let me go. I had a hard time with it at first but in time I've let him go too. The hardest part of all is letting go of someone you once loved. I'm just glad he doesn't know. And I already accepted that fact that we can no longer be in each other's lives. I see his pictures on Facebook were no longer friends on there I block him and unblock him and I miss him so much. I'm glad were not talking because it was getting to difficult to be around him. He was a big part of my life and was someone very important to me. I'm not struggling with this but sure am having a hard time letting him go. I have dreams about him when I wake up in the morning I can't remember it, I can't stop thinking about him he's constantly on my mind, I'm receiving constant signs everywhere reminding me of him, I constantly feel his presence around me which makes it harder for me to let go off. To make matters worst last year around August 13 was when we met and that's coming up in a month and I have no idea how I'm going to get through this. I try to occupy myself the best way I can keeping myself busy. I just don't understand why I'm going through this. I just want him to be happy in his life and I'm afraid I'm never going to get over this. I just need some moral support because I am having such a hard time. I loved him enough to set him free for him to go on with his life and a part of me is trying to accept that. I could use some sort of support right about now.

[coolgirl]

Might I add I had a hard year up until now and to go through this as well was just the tip of the iceberg for me. And I never meant to become a burden to him because that was never my intention. I didn't think I would find myself in this situation again. I want to be able to forgive him I just don't know how. I know I need to forgive 9in order to move on from this. I'm usually a forgivable person. To be able to trust him again I don't know if I ever can. I just recently found out a month ago through some forum that our 9 month friendship was toxic for him that he did not tell me that's how he really felt other than that i would had let him go along time ago. He's not a bad person. The fact of the matter is that he wasn't honest with me. I was devastated and hurt by this because I did not know. Instead I had to read about it. I made my fair share of mistakes too. How am I suppose to forgive and forget ?

[Esglee]

Go do things that make you feel good. Indulge in a spa, pedicures....do anything and everything to pamper yourself. Time will take care of this and then, ONE DAY, you will meet someone who you really, really CLICK with. And, all of this will be forgotten.