I'm pregnant and my bf and I can't get along.

[summercool]

So I'm Due with my first (baby girl) in October. I just bought a house which me and my bf have been in 2 months. We have been together since November 2016. When we started talking i was out of state going to college. I moved back home 3 months later and we started dating. We did gonlrstty fast and he was soon staying with me at my father's house. First mistake. However I didn't start seeing his true personality until we had our own house. I realize a lot of people will say it's just me being pregnant and emotions but I assure you that's not the case. He gets mad over EVERY little thing and it stresses me out. He doesn't get it and always replies with "I get mad like everyone else does"... I understand that but when it's little stuff ALL day, all week, all the time it gets old. An example, he has a 3 year old and one night she pooped in her diaper and had a stomach ache so it was messy. When we went to change her he was so mad and cursing. I get that it's inconvenient to have to wake up and change a crap diaper but your daughter doesn't understand why you are upset and it upsets her. Makes her feel like she did something wrong. That's just a small example. Point is I'm the opposite. I'm almost always in a good mood and let things go easily but I can't deal with the stress anymore. I don't know what to do. Yes he knows how I feel and we have been been to a counselor.

[melancholy123]

Keep going to counselling, your guy has anger management issues that need resolving. Cursing at a 3 yr old for pooping in her diaper is just wrong and harmful to the child as well. Does he want another child? Could this be behind the anger?

[summercool]

Keep going to counselling, your guy has anger management issues that need resolving. Cursing at a 3 yr old for pooping in her diaper is just wrong and harmful to the child as well. Does he want another child? Could this be behind the anger?

He does want another child and aside from getting mad at dumb stuff he is really good with his first. He doesn't think he has an anger problem and when I try to explain to him he just says of course I get mad like everyone else. I'm not saying he shouldn't get mad but at certain things it's ridiculous and I won't deal with him getting upset at my child when he has to change a diaper.

[Seraphim]

Well, he will be cursing and yelling when he has to change YOUR child's diaper too, make no mistake. He DOES have an anger problem. You just have to decide if you want your child raised by somebody with an anger problem .

[Capricorn3]

I also recommend you keep going to counselling and HE definitely needs to seek anger management, because it IS a huge issue and even worse, when babies/toddlers are involved. Children need to grow up in a happy, safe and stable environment and you do not get that when someone has such anger issues. It leads to a toxic and dysfunctional environment. I know what I would do. Put your children first.