thealchemist Posted September 19, 2017 Share Posted September 19, 2017 Well she thought that intercourse before marriage was terrible throughout her childhood. Even after she consciously knew that wasn't true she had issues with stuff subconciously. We went really slow with everything physical. She would just get a lot of guilt that she couldn't explain. She never had an issue with getting turned on though. I am still not totally sure what was going on in her head but she would act weird after sex and she would deflect questions about what was wrong. I just left her alone and let her know if she wants to talk I am here. It took many years before I felt like she really enjoyed sex. That is pretty common though. She was primarily motivated to have sex because she knows my libido. After awhile she started to open up a lot more and get into it and actually lead during sex. She now has a libido nearly equal to mine. Link to comment
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