Portland94 Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 I very recently hooked up with a woman who is more than sixteen years older then me. We went out for drinks, had a great time, and I went back to her place the following night. She has clearly gotten the wrong impression from this as, she has gotten very clingy and is messaging and ringing me everyday since then. I am living abroad and met her while I was working. So she's knows where I live and place of employment, and now wants to know all about me, my roommates etc. I do not like that she is being very pushy, trying to get into my circle and become a part of my life, only after such a short space of time, only one week. Looking at it from her side, she's much older than me, has different outlooks on life, she has a mental illness, like I once had, we're alike in some ways but not enough to be considered a match. I was mildly attracted to her, only mildly, for one night, and now I simply cannot stand her. I did not initiate any of this. But she is really bugging me because she wants to do all of the things I have on my bucket list while I am living here, insists on going everywhere with me, holding my hand in public, kissing me, planning weekend trips, all types of couples sh*t. It is really p*ssing me off if I'm honest. Just very clingy. Truth be told, she's actually a very attractive woman by everyone's standards, but the age gap for me is way too much. At most, I thought she was 4 years older than me. I am not a nasty guy, and not wanting to give her the wrong impression, I think it's best to nip this at the bud before she gets even worse. I can tell she is very, very, very into me, the second me leave she is sending me text messages and heart emojis and all that rubbish. How is best for me to let her down gently, seeing as she frequents my place of work and knows where I live? Thanks in advance, P Link to comment
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