thisjourney Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 So there is this girl who told me that she is now talking to the guy that I used to date. She told me that she is his girl and the one that he is talking to now. Ok no big deal i'm not with him anymore but then she found out that the guy is no good by other people and that he has a history of sexually harassing girls. I know how the guy is unfortunately i had to find out the hard way, didn't know he was crazy and yes he is bad news but if she wants to talk to him that's her business but I did make a comment, not sure if it was my place to make it but I told her and I quote "It just blows my mind that you are with a guy like this knowing his history," then she turns around and says and I quote "I'm not with him, you don't know what we have." My question is why is she saying one thing and then saying another? She had just said that she was his girl and the one he's talking to now but then later in the conversation changed her story saying that she is not with him. That was kind of weird. lol. it's just a question if you want to answer it feel free but no rude responses please thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cardtaker15 Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 My answer would be .. easy.. She just doesn't want to have a bad reputation after talking to a 'bad' guy who harrasses girls.. She isn't telling what her own gut says tho.. she is doing that for show. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisjourney Posted July 9, 2017 Author Share Posted July 9, 2017 doing what for show? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
figureitout23 Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 She doesn't feel like being judged for her choices. You said in your post 'no rude responses please' so you totally get the concept, you were rude to her and she didn't want to deal with it so she changed her story. Maybe ask yourself why you're so worried bout who your ex is dating? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisjourney Posted July 9, 2017 Author Share Posted July 9, 2017 well for starters i was raped by this guy so there's your answer and i wanted to prevent it from happening to someone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisjourney Posted July 10, 2017 Author Share Posted July 10, 2017 She doesn't feel like being judged for her choices. You said in your post 'no rude responses please' so you totally get the concept, you were rude to her and she didn't want to deal with it so she changed her story. Maybe ask yourself why you're so worried bout who your ex is dating? i was raped by this guy. was trying to prevent someone else from going through the same thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
figureitout23 Posted July 10, 2017 Share Posted July 10, 2017 i was raped by this guy. was trying to prevent someone else from going through the same thing. First- im sorry you expierienced that. Second- speak to her. The answer remains the same. She most likely changed her story to avoid being judged. So instead of judging, speak to her so it doesn't happen to her too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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