LolaMay4559 Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Have you any of you had experience with a female friend of a guy constantly butting in? I have known this guy for about five years now, and every time he and I start to talk or hang out, she pops up and causes a negative distraction of some sort. She has known him a year or two longer than I have, but she has been in a relationship with someone else for the last several years. I have never been formally introduced to her, but kind of know her from seeing her around. She used to stare me down when I would see her out (my friends noticed it too), and even though he and I were not dating, she would tell him about every guy (some were friends, or other people just making conversation) she saw me talking to at a bar. My gut tells me she is in love with him, and maybe they had a fling at some point before I met him. He deleted me on Facebook because "she is very dramatic, and he doesn't want to deal with it." He said she didn't approve of him talking to me. Keep in mind, she doesn't know me! A couple of years ago, she set him up with a mutual friend of theirs and he dumped her suddenly after a few months. This girl went around telling anyone who would listen that I was the reason he dumped the girl he was dating, and I just couldn't let him go. I never had anything to do with it! I wasn't even talking to him at that point. Prior to that, even though she had a boyfriend, she made her profile picture one of her and this guy around the time he and I really were spending time together. She already had a boyfriend then too! I don't understand what her deal is. At this point, I've cut off all contact with him because I think the whole thing is childish and ridiculous. He still pops up in my life from time-to-time. This is the most bizarre set of circumstances I've encountered since maybe I was a teenager, and I'm tired of dealing with it. Link to comment
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