boxingguy Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 My ex girlfriend. I love her like crazy, I helped her with her rent, with her bills, I even bought her a brand new smartphone. But now it's over, and I feel like nothing. Used and thrown away. She mended things with her family who kicked her out, and now she's going back to them and they are paying for her to go back to college. And now, now I'm just left here all alone wondering how I didn't realize it. I was a fool. How it ended: She ignored me for 12 hours, two very vague replies and now. Now she just tells me not to call her or contact because she's with her family now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricorn3 Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 I'm sorry this happened. How long were you together? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nutbrownhare Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 She does sound like a bit of a freeloader... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boxingguy Posted July 7, 2017 Author Share Posted July 7, 2017 I'm sorry this happened. How long were you together? About 4 months. Capricorn3... I feel like nothing. She said she loved me, and she cried before when we got into an argument. It felt so genuine. I'm so crushed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricorn3 Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 About 4 months. Capricorn3... I feel like nothing. She said she loved me, and she cried before when we got into an argument. It felt so genuine. I'm so crushed. Wow, only 4 months!? When I read you had paid her bills and rent and bought her a smartphone etc etc, I thoughts you were together for several years. Wow, I don't understand why you would do all those things for someone you hardly know well at all. Too much too soon (imo). Sounds like you were trying to "buy" her love? Yeah, she probably used you - figured "hey, this guy buys/pays all these things, so hell, I'll take it". Be glad you dodged a bullet and learn from this - don't EVER, EVER pay someone's bills and rent and buy them smartphones when you hardly know them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boxingguy Posted July 7, 2017 Author Share Posted July 7, 2017 She does sound like a bit of a freeloader... She also had a job but she was bad with money. Spent more than she had. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boxingguy Posted July 7, 2017 Author Share Posted July 7, 2017 Wow, only 4 months!? When I read you had paid her bills and rent and bought her a smartphone etc etc, I thoughts you were together for several years. Wow, I don't understand why you would do all those things for someone you hardly know well at all. Too much too soon (imo). Sounds like you were trying to "buy" her love? Yeah, she probably used you - figured "hey, this guy buys/pays all these things, so hell, I'll take it". Be glad you dodged a bullet and learn from this - don't EVER, EVER pay someone's bills and rent and buy them smartphones when you hardly know them. We talked a few months before, Capricorn3. I really thought she was genuine. She was really soft spoken, and tender. Not real good with her emotions. I didn't expect it. Anyone with some words to guide me. I hate this feeling. What do I do now, please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Careerchoice Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 You keep out of touch, make your life the best, and find someone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostandhurt Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 From your other thread about this girl it sounds like you two were not a good match anyways. Yes you were used. Lesson learned I hope. Don't try and rescue women you are dating. After a time you will see that she is not emotionally capable of the kind of relationship you want. Simply put she is not for you and needs to get her life together before she gets into any relationship. I wonder why her family kicked her out and cut her off? Lost Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilsunfl0wer Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 My ex girlfriend. I love her like crazy, I helped her with her rent, with her bills, I even bought her a brand new smartphone. But now it's over, and I feel like nothing. Used and thrown away. She mended things with her family who kicked her out, and now she's going back to them and they are paying for her to go back to college. And now, now I'm just left here all alone wondering how I didn't realize it. I was a fool. How it ended: She ignored me for 12 hours, two very vague replies and now. Now she just tells me not to call her or contact because she's with her family now. This sounds like what I went through recently. You don't know until it fully happens, but to break up with someone over text? She's not emotionally stable. You two been together for less than 4 months, right? You bought her gifts, but did she say or returned the favour? I don't see why she went back to her family after they did what they done to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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