The most cruel thing your ex told you that you will remember until you die?

[The EXorcist]

Mine: "You are my life, no one will ever love you more than I do",

 

followed by

 

"I don't care. If you want to call me sometimes you can do so, but don't bother me too often..."

 

when she broke up with me (almost ghosted)

[Giblesp]

To which I'd say, 'Actually I've changed my mind. See ya...'

 

Childish and immature comments like the one she told you are not worthy of any further attention, and certainly don't warrant emotional commitment. It's a sure sign that breaking up is not only the right thing to do, its a blessing. Thats the only thing I'd remember about such a comment.

[Wolfshook]

She had "close encounter" with a guy playing truth or dare at her friends party (wasnt actually cheating, but was close to it) and as she told me and I got angry she followed it up with "what are you expecting me to do, I'm still young".

 

The other thing was not actually said but was done, she was at my place and got a call around midnight. Her mobile was on my side of bed so I handed it to her but I didnt look who it was. Well she tought I've seen the caller (it was a guy that she friendzoned as I got to know months later) and started turning around saying how it's nothing,how somebody needs her sister etc and to take her home imediately. I honestlg dont know what the call was about but I do know it was that guy and it was all extremely shady so I was hurt by it greatly. She acted like she didnt care that I'm hurt.

 

Now that I think about it I should have ended this relationship ages ago,but I was too p*ssywhipped to do that.

 

At least I learned to draw boundaries now.

[Pleasedonot5]

"Maybe your idea of what constitutes a close friend is radically different. It's not like you two were even close at all" she said to me, after sleeping with a close friend and colleague of mine, not a month after breaking up.

[jay228]

She told me " I regret being together with you. I don't see a future with you. "

 

But hey...they are our ex for a reason right ? Maybe when the right one come along we would be too busy to remember back all these ?

[cococly]

She said "You gave me 100% sense of security in our relationship" , then she started crying and dumped me for another guy.

[HurtNotBroken]

I only got back with you because I know you'd marry me and fix my paperwork.

[No1]

Its an X, I dont care what was said. Ive moved on. Holding on to what was said until you die is just wasted energy and does no one any good.

[LaHermes]

Fully agree Nº 1. And all that kind of reminiscing produces is a very negative vibe.