doratheexplora Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 I have been in this situation since November of 2016. Me, and this guy both agreed to keep our relationship strictly friends, and no feelings attached.. sooner than you know I started catching these feelings, but I didn't admit to how I felt .. shortly after he did admit that he liked me but nothing serious.... two months in his true colors started to show he was drinking more .. started openly disrespecting me more often. I continued to stick around thinking things could change. We spent almost every single day together .. wasn't a day we didn't text .. we were around his family a lot .. not to mention we always did couple like things.. going out to eat going places etc.. He then started to go through my phone without permission, and blaming me for why he could never take me serious when in reality .. he told me from the jump who he was, and about other women ... even though I knew he wasn't boyfriend material I still stuck it out .. and continued our friendship .. I've told him three separate occasions that I felt for him, and each and every time he expressed how we could never really be.. each time I've realized I could do better and that the relationship was getting toxic .. with his mental, physical abuse, and all these mind games.. I then would try to close things up in person but somehow he would always say something slick or in a way to convince me to stay .. then here I am back at his place sleeping over .. up most recently I tried to break things off .. he asked me to at least remain friends non sexual .. so I again went against my word to be his friend.. he then again got into my pants .. and then again went into my phone, and this time seen private conversations .. calling me out my name .. using a double standard with me once again.. i can't seem to escape him .. I'm trying to move on but I keep reflecting back to him.. my friends and family dislike him, and always tell me I can do better .. can anyone relate ): why can't I just walk away Link to comment
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