Ghosted?

[boltnrun]

Are you trying to feel better about your recent breakup by latching onto this woman? Do you think she's the solution to all the pain you've been in?

 

Because, brother, I guarantee latching onto this woman will cause you even more pain. You'll find yourself agreeing to a commitment you don't really want and then the REAL trouble will start.

 

Why go down that road?

 

This is not the answer. Please be more careful.

[Tomthumb88]

I'm not latching on.. I went in one date, it seemed to go well but was followed by confusion and bizarre behavior.

For the record.. I said I was "intrested" not commited

[itsallgrand]

I'm just going to do nothing further and call this one. I should have struck quicker as she seemed very willing at the time but I didn't want to push too hard and I thought there would be another chance.

 

For the sex? ?

[boltnrun]

I'm not latching on.. I went in one date, it seemed to go well but was followed by confusion and bizarre behavior.

For the record.. I said I was "intrested" not commited

 

"coukd be.. part of me feels stupid for over investing on someone I went on one date with. "

 

Your words.

 

I mean, you may agree to commit to her prematurely just so you can keep seeing her as a way to distract yourself from the pain of your breakup. Many people make that mistake and then find themselves in a relationship that's not right for them.

[Tomthumb88]

Ok.. good point. And (her craziness aside) we seem to have different goals

[Careerchoice]

For the sex? ?

 

And what would be wrong with that?

[Tomthumb88]

That's what I was referring to.. lol

[mustlovedogs]

If you're too blind to these glaring red flags, should you even be dating? You don't seem to be in the right emotional place (ie you're setting yourself up to lose)

[Tomthumb88]

Red flags? I was looking for date #2, not propose marriage.

I'm just trying to get back out there and have a little fun at the moment

[Birdie]

This sounded way more stressful and dramatic then fun...

[Careerchoice]

Red flags? I was looking for date #2, not propose marriage.

I'm just trying to get back out there and have a little fun at the moment

 

I don't understand the all or nothing mentality. There is such a thing as casual dating. There's nothing wrong with it.

[HeartGoesOn]

I'm just trying to get back out there and have a little fun at the moment

 

We obviously know what you mean, yet hopefully it's not at someone else's expense.

[mustlovedogs]

Red flags? I was looking for date #2, not propose marriage.

I'm just trying to get back out there and have a little fun at the moment

 

The red flags are she wanted commitment right away and texting her a day after a date wasn't good enough.

 

Just wanting fun doesn't line up with pursuing a woman like that.

[MissCanuck]

Meh, don't bother wasting more words with her. She doesn't care.

 

You will find a better candidate for casual dating. This one is not it.

[itsallgrand]

And what would be wrong with that?

 

There's nothing wrong with casual between two people on the same page.

 

You don't need to throw out common sense nor try this hard though. Just let it go. Surely she's not the only hot woman in the world.