I don't know how I feel.

[Lesliealexzan]

Before my now boyfriend I was in a car toxic. Abusive, stressful, just bad relationship with a girl. I drove about 2 hours to discover she was alrwady with someone else. She said she never loved me and that i meant nothing after 2 years to my face. I am girl also. I got with my boyfriend a little less than 3 weeks after my breakup. When I think about it, he is amazing. But I find myself just wanting to be alone, and not knowing how to react when he talks about the future. He's a serious guy, goal minded. But I also don't want to seem like an ass to him either because of what he's been through in the past. If this helps I am 23, my boyfriend is 27 and my ex is 21. Help.

[Capricorn3]

Before my now boyfriend I was in a car toxic..

What does that mean?

 

Trying to figure this out. You're a girl. Had a relationship with a girl. Now you have a boyfriend. But you want to be alone. What exactly are you asking?

[janedawson]

I think you should take some time to heal from you're last relationship, you were together for 2 years right? You also said that you just want to be alone right now, so it's not fair for your ex boyfriend to be in a relationship with you when you feel that way.

 

If you really liked that girl it's very hard to be completely over her 3 weeks after the break up and ready for another relationship. If I were you I would time some time off relationships… focus on other things in your life.

[Dahl]

What does that mean?

 

Trying to figure this out. You're a girl. Had a relationship with a girl. Now you have a boyfriend. But you want to be alone. What exactly are you asking?

 

I failed to suss this remark out, myself.

 

OP, can you please elaborate/clarify?