inf7cted Posted June 30, 2017 Share Posted June 30, 2017 Male 35. Never married - no kids. I was sick for 8 years and just got my health back 10 months ago and been working out at the gym since then. I met this girl who seemed nice and my interests grew for her. As I started to date her things took a turn for confusion. She has 3 kids and recently kicked out her x husband. She told me her X husband was allowed back into the kids life, but she told me he failed and was a deadbeat dad. As I got to know this girl money became the front of all problems. She kept stressing about keeping her home since the rent was too much for her. She needed for this month 1079 - so as a nice guy I gave her 500. She continued to stress about losing the house and then I started to question if I was being used. She comes across as caring off and on, but when it comes down to her and I having time to enjoy ourselves. it felt like the simple things became the impossible. She never complemented me, she would never accept a complement from me if I called her beautiful. I would say "Your beautiful" her response was "Disaster" . At first I let these things go for a time, but now its bothering me to the point of ending it. She told me if I paid the rent I can live with her, but only known her for about one month. Rent she needs is 1700. Im trying to gain things back in my life, like a car and just enjoying myself after being sick for so long. Part of me feels like a peice of crap if I pull away from this situation ( 3 kids ) but im not the one who should be responsible. When I ask her to do something most times its "I don't know or il let you know" Today i wanted to do something tomorrow BBQ, but it took me a few tires for her to accept it. When she came up stairs to drop me off I asked her to stop stressing and relax for a few. it took her 90 seconds to leave. I do not know what to think of this situation. Should I run away from this? Link to comment
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