sad buffoon

[smallestyawn]

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We started off kind of rocky, I found out he had another fb with a bunch of girls. He had me blocked and everything. I confronted him about it and he gave me so bs answer, saying he "accidentally" logged into the wrong account. He later fessed up and told me he was in fact talking to girls and asking them to hang out with him. One thing led to another and I forgave him... Things weren't quiet the same after that, I just felt like that what had happened had put a wedge between us. And as much as I would try to forgive and forget, every little thing he would do would set me off. But I was determined to make this work, I love him. A few months later around Decemberish, I started noticing he was acting kind of off? We would hang out and later and he would just kind of rush me to leave because he was going to hang out with one of his "guy friends". Well a few days later I went through his phone and he was talking to some girl. I asked him who it was and he said it was his ex... But he said that they were just friends and the only reason he hid it from me was because he "knew how I would get". Being the dummy that I am, I forgave him. After that things started to calm down between us. We weren't arguing all the time. Things were going alright. But recently he started adding a bunch of girls from our old high school. And he keeps liking all their pictures and he rarely likes any of mine. He's also talking to them... Last night we had a fight and I told him that I need a break. He said I'm overreacting, that they're just pictures. That they don't mean anything. Maybe I am overreacting but with everything he's put me through, it's hard not to over think things. Is it time to just call it quits or should I take his word for it see where it goes?

[ParisPaulette]

It's time to call it quits. This guy needs female attention, already nearly lost you once before to sketchy behavior, and is now starting it all back up again.

 

You should have dumped him the first time. Now that he knows you overlook his cheating he's thinking he can do it again and you'll just take him back. Sorry, but when someone shows you who they are the first time, don't be astonished when they continue to be that same person after empty promises.