safehouse35 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. I just turned 21 and she will turn 20 this year. When we started having sex 2 years ago things were great. Pretty much every time we got to see each other we took the opportunity. But as time has gone on we have had sex less and less and it has gotten to a point where we are lucky to have sex once a month. I have talked to her about this and her response to me is that she simply doesn't enjoy sex, and when we do have sex it seems she just wants it to be over with. I have tried changing things to adapt to what she wants but as time went on it just seemed that what she wanted was no sex. Now I don't even try very often and I have built up a lot of frustration. I don't want to leave her because I love her with every part of my soul. I want to have a life with her and leaving her for something like this just doesn't seem right. But for me once a month just isn't cutting it. I feel like I am pushed up against a wall and I would just like some more perspectives on this. Thank you. Link to comment
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