sleeplessinusa Posted June 25, 2017 Share Posted June 25, 2017 Long story short.. I work in a big building and there's also restaurants and stuff in it .. including this bar that I regularly frequent after a work day. I always thought the girl that works there was pretty but never really pursued anything before , just a quick hello and such... But within last month or so I've stayed longer to have a few drinks and things got a lil more flirtatious. I started getting more attracted to her. Then last Saturday I casually asked after she gets out of work let's hang out and get drinks somewhere else. She agrees , fun flirtatious night with food and drinks etc ..... ended up walking up to her apartment door and heavy makeout session with some second base action boobs etc.. she then says she gotta go. Didn't talk or see her since, so Thursday comes and I go into the bar early in the day and say "hey wasup hanging out with me tonight right? " .. she replies " no can't gotta work late I got my says mixed up thought I could but can't " I reply okay cool grab a drink and said I'll see her later. After my work shift I go into bar and grab a beer and ask again if she could come out in a fun way.. she now replies with " well I told the bf I'm seeing what happened with us last week and he's not happy and I Just can't drink with you " I go well when's next time you're free to hang out and she replies she can't. So I stay friendly and flirtatious. Since I go there everyday I'd be weird if I didn't keep on going so I went Friday and sat, we still chat about random stuff and friendly smiling laughing etc ... But enotalone community lemme ask you.. and obviously your replies will mostly be leave her alone etc she got a bf etc.. 1. But realisticallly did I up by asking her to hang out twice in same day , would I be in a better position if I just asked her once and she said she can't because of work and then leave it at that. Would she even mention The bf later on? 2.Do you think she would've even brought up the bf if I just asked once 3. Why bring up the bf now 4. Do you believe she told her bf .. (she does have a bf , someone told me afterwards) 5.do I continue to go in and be normal or go in and get your drink and get out? 6. What's the best way to regain attraction to make her interested in me. 7. Or is it over Link to comment
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