Sugarglider Posted June 23, 2017 Share Posted June 23, 2017 Im 31 & Im dating a man that's 50. I have previously been in almost exclusively abusive relationships with men my age. This is by far the healthiest relationship ive been in. I have 3 kids, two have autism, and he's wonderful with my kids. Loves my kids. I keep finding myself almost sorta trying to sabatage this relationship. I keep looking for there to be things wrong, and when i dont find it i hyperfocus that the relationship will end. We both want a family. I want to be a stay at home mom, he wants a stay at home wife/mother. We have interests in common which we share some time together doing at his home. I guess the only real problem is he works 80 hours a week, pretty much 7 days a week, and absolutely does not do anything outside the house except work. Because of his age and he's never popped the question to anyone, i have a intense fear of him keeping me around and never going further. He stayed with one ex 3 years and broke up with her, (mostly it sounds like) because he was afriad to get married. He said they somewhat werent money compatable too. Link to comment
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