Fabrizioldu Posted June 19, 2017 Share Posted June 19, 2017 I need serious help. I’ll give you the background and any help or advice is massively appreciated because I do love this girl. I’ve been with my girlfriend almost three year and it was going great until 1 year ago when I read her diaries (I know I wasn't supposed to do that). I found out she had slept with a LOT of guys before me. Well I know I'm not gonna find a virgin but what it makes me feel so bad about her is what she has done. She slept with guys the very first night they met (ok sometimes happens) but not every single weekend! I read she did drugs i saw a picture kissing his best friend who is Gay, also a picture making out with her 3 bests girlfriends at the same time, I saw a note that she wrote to someone in the bar saying that she and her girlfriends want to s*** his d***and they left their phone numbers and some more things crazy things. Now I literally CANNOT GET THIS OUT OF MY HEAD. I think about it a lot and I believe the issue resides in the sheer number of partners and I think, primarily, me thinking about her and them engaging in the physical act of sex. I don’t want to sound crude, but the fact that she has had so many guys inside her is driving me absolutely insane, my imagination and thinking about this is destroying me and us!!! After I read all of that i tried to just get over it because that was past but it hurts a lot that she doesn't want to have sex with me. Luckily we have once a month and always ask myself why she doesn't want to have sex with me if she used to have tons of sex. I talked to her about this but I don't see any change…. She says she loves me but I really can’t get it out of my head; the amount of men she’s had inside her and not having sex with me hurts me so much, it is a MASSIVE PROBLEM. I don’t know what to do, as I say I love her but I don’t know if I can ever get over it. I’ve not been a man- as it were, I’ve always enjoyed having girlfriends, but this has driven me to seek advice. Any and all advice welcome. Thanks! Link to comment
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